Earlier this week I saw RuPaul on a talk show, not in drag but in his own everyday wardrobe, an elegant black silk suit with a fire engine red polka… Read More

After yesterday's blog posting, I can't stop thinking about cool. What's cool and what's not. Who's cool and who's not.  I'm wanting to think and talk more about the actual… Read More

I have always been in awe of coolness.  Cool is about authenticity, attitude, aesthetic, behavior and style. Smooth, quiet, comfortable charisma, unapologetic humor and humble self confidence, laid back, sometimes… Read More

Today is Purim, a Jewish holiday marked by boisterous silliness, costumes and topsy-turvy frivolity. It is yet another holiday about using whatever skills and resources we have to survive, even… Read More

I spent part of today thinking about my last posting on lovingkindness, and about the risk of oversimplifying things that are often quite complex.  Love. Kindness. Transparency. Forgiveness. Home.  It… Read More